I am so very sorry to hear about all of this. I am stunned. Shocked and have no idea what else to say. Everyone else has said it all.
I just don't understand one thing:
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... And in the midst of my shreaking and yelling told me that he hated me and tried to choke me at one point.
WHY on earth is H still there???
I know you love him, but do you love him enough to "tolerate" this violence against you? HE TRIED TO CHOKE YOU....and he is STILL THERE. I am at a loss.
What happens when he gets angry again?
It WILL happen again....and god forbid D is there...because he knows he can get away with it, and you will do nothing to stop it.
(((I'm sorry, Neecy.)))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
