T I dont know but I sense he probably wants access to you and his old life even if it is one foot in and one out maybe he is trying to talk himself into beliveing his new R is better ..even if it is for the moment more exciting than his 20 year M, that will too fade and quickly and soon they are left with themselves again It could be a desperate plea for help hoping his new sitch is better b/c what would happen if it was worse or same and his bordom was growing and now you are gone touch spot to be in..maybe worse than tough disasterous just my thoughts peace
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