I like it when a post of mine from a month ago gets a cut and paste resonse. My sitch has drastically changed since then, but I get a bizarre answer anyhow.

Hope4Us--I am so glad that you and your son had a good talk and a nice time together. You are right. He is an adult. Heck I am sure some people on this board got married when they were 19! He needs to know what is going on and decide for himself how he is going to treat his mother. Just think how worse it could have been if YOU didn't tell him and he learned about the affair from someone else?

You are doing a good job. I am thinking about you and said a prayer for you at church today.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08