Here is my agenda: Politely says 'no' to some invites. Do something for myself.. (Today is my shopping/nail day!) Be confident, keep working on physical appearance, be happy, be busy with lots of other things H does not involve.
Yes!!! H will wonder what you are doing, even 'encourage' you to date but be jealous at the same time. Keep strong and faithful and I think the BIG key is to GAL w/o H in mind, but include him from time to time.