THERE HAS BEEN A LOT GOING ON IN MY SITCH. EX HAS BEEN TRYING VERY HARD AGAIN TO SUCK ME INTO HIS DRAMA. I WILL DO MY BEST TO MAKE HIM UNSUCCESSFUL.
I PLANNED A TRIP FOR MY CHILDREN TO DISNEY IN OCTOBER. MY DAUGHTER TOLD HIM THIS A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO. HE JUST PLANNED A TRIP TO DISNEY WITH MY KIDS FOR AUGUST....
HE HAS BEEN COMPLAINING TO MY DAUGHTER NON-STOP THAT I WON'T COMMUNICATE WITH HIM REGARDING ANYTHING. THIS IS NOT TRUE. I RESPOND TO MOST OF HIS EMAILS HOWEVER I HAVE TOLD HIM TO NOT COME OVER UNEXPECTANTLY OR CALL ME.
HE GAVE MY CHILDREN OW'S PHONE NUMBER AND HAS BEEN ENCOURAGING THEM TO CALL HER AND TEXT HER WHENEVER THEY WANT.
HE HAS TOLD MY CHILDREN THAT OUR MARRIAGE WOULD NEVER HAVE MADE IT ANYWAY DESPITE HIS AFFAIR.
HE HAS TOLD MY CHILDREN THAT I COULD AT LEAST COMMUNICATE WITH HIM AND LET HIM COME AND GO IN OUR HOUSE SINCE HE GIVES ME A BUNCH OF MONEY EVERY MONTH.
HE TOLD MY CHILDREN THEY ARE LUCKY THIS HAS HAPPENED TO THEM BECAUSE NOW THEY CAN SEE WHAT A REALLY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP LOOKS LIKE WHEN HIM AND OW ARE TOGETHER.
MY PLAN IS TO CONTINUE TO BE FRIENDLY LOVING BUT TO STILL KEEP SOME BOUNDARIES. I HAVE NOT ACKNOWLEDGED ANY OF THE ABOVE. IT IS VERY DIFFICULT NOT TO. WHY DO THEY TRY TO SUCK US IN SO MUCH? IS IT DONE ON PURPOSE? DO THEY TRY TO HURT US?
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
