Thanks for the comments, at the moment I don't feel the need to over analyse every incident at home which is why I don't journal so much now. In fact things have been running smoothly over the last few weeks with exception of sex, that I've been quite relaxed and just getting on with things. FG has been telling me since the start of the year that the sex thing would happen and this was at a time when W wouldn't even let me touch her. Now that it has happened it's come as a bit of a shock cos again as FG said it wasn't the kind of connection I was expecting so it's just gonna take me a short while to adjust to that.
I like to keep reminders of helpful hints and tips which is why I copied your post and some other bits from FG and Sandi cos I realise this DB way of working will by my support system to keep the M on track. I still make mistakes but I don't panic now looking for an answer to stay on W good side, main thing is not to let complacency set in.
Lan
PS: don't mind Forrest he came to my aid on day one when I had NFC what was going on in my sitch, he helped to steady me and point me in the right direction, a bit like I'm doing for Steve(477) so he's always gonna chip in on any post to my thread.
