Welcome to the board. Yes, there is hope. But at times, hope is not enough. You need to read []Divorce Remedy[], by Michele Weiner-Davis. Michele believes in saving your marriage by creating change within yourself. She believes, if you are given the right tools, one person can save his or her marriage single-handedly.
My advice to you is to do things differently. Right now, do not nag, yell, or pursue him. Stay away from relationship talk right now. This is the 180s. The Get-a-Life (GAL) technique will help tremendously. Basically, you place the attention on YOU, and keep busy. Enjoy pleasurable activities so that you do not obsess over H. The GAL will empower you, revive you, and hopefully, grab your H's attention. Since you are doing something different, H is bound to take notice!
The "Advice from Wise D'bers" forum, and the others found here hold a lot of info. Please return, hang in there, and divorce bust!
