Thanks Bruce, I do like the new me alot and would never want to go back. I have learned a lot in just a short time. A lot about her also. Yes, she is in a tremendous amount of pain. She misses her Mom a lot, is a completly different person and is in a lot of pain and depressed. Ifell really bad and would do anything for her but my help is not being solisited. That's the worst part.