Sounds like you had an amazing night last night and that h was putty in your hands! You are so AWESOME!!
I love the 180s at dinner- what a fantastic way of getting H to re-evaluate his perceptions and assumptions about you. I am so going to try ordering different stuff next time I see my H.
It sounds like you are right on top of things and in control. Keep going- I can't wait to see how your sitch develops.
((((W2G))))
L.xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.