Anger and confusion and pain can make people (our spouses) do the strangest actions. (as many of us can attest to here.) Add booze... and presto... wacko-alien being.
Something my lawyer said to me last week keeps ringing in my ear... he said amazingly enough... health issues of one sort or another might be fueling our spouses completely out of character actions.
Trying to find out what that is... or god forbid urging them to get a head scan... medical assessment for depression is all but impossible... but it can explain some of the absolutely wacko behavior we have the misfortune of having to deal with. Doesn`t make it easier...
Take care of you and if the violent behavior shows it`s head again... protect YOU and your D at all costs.
Abbey.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
