Stronger - but still confused

[Hope4us]

Neecy, I HOPE YOU ARE RIGHT, but you know you're going to hear a bunch of us say that you shouldn't trust ANYTHING OW says.

That being said, is she telling you the truth? Could be. It's always possible that OW figured out that your H wasn't someone she wanted to be with so she's the one making the effort to ensure No Contact. Bad part about that is if it wasn't your H's idea to end the affair, it will take him longer to get over it. But it also means that NC will have a better chance of sticking because OW isn't out there waiting for your H to try and get back together with her. Kind of a double edged sword, KWIM?

Thanks for the props on my sitch. Hope your day goes well.