You said Originally Posted By: C_K I would guess that contact with me is difficult and confusing at times.
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Can you say more on this? In what ways / why do you think this might be?
Some time ago perhaps even 2/3 yrs ago , W decided that she would quit our M based on her perception of how things were. a little over 12 months ago enter a new C_K armed with some information ( Divorce Remedy ). Over the next 12 months I change behaviours and dont act in a way that is expected based on the past. Now W seems to like this new improved C_K and enjoys spending time , but she has also taken some drastic steps to leave the R. See how it goes , I am not acting as expected , W gets thrown in to a place thats not so clear cut.
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Question is--waiting for us to do WHAT???
I am not sure , perhaps slip back into old behaviours? perhaps beg her to come home ?
I dont think she ever expected me to cope after she left.
