I need to start wroking out. I have to figure out a schedule for free time and see what I will do....
T, you call. You do not talk to VM, you only say, it's T, I'll call you later. If he has your number fine. If he doesn't, leave your number as well.
Call him.
K
Call him
Call him
You' ve DBing your self. We have to figure out if there is something there or not. The most positive for me so far was your gut feeling. Remember, I've been there. I've done that. I never called but I had a wedding I was invited to and I knew he would be there as well, and I waited until then. That was on July 2nd, we broke up Dec 26. April he visits my best friends tells her he is seeing a girl, he has moved on, etc. etc. (She NEVER tells me the whole story) Around June the first reports came from friends he was asking what I was doing. I never called, waited.
Why did I say all this? Right!! First for the voice and secondly to say that although I did wait, in your case I would say, figure out what is going on.
One more thing, people here are following as good as they can the DB rules. If we don't get our M/R back in track, we at least have our good old selves back. You have clearly made HUGE progress as far as yourself is concerned. Now you have to see if you can get him back. If he doesn't see/hear/smell the changes he will not be drawn to you no matter how wonderful you have become. It's time for him to see the changes.
