She does need to work it out herself but it is so darn hard to watch the one you love broken and in pieces and not *do* something.
Less is more though right?
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.