Christmas day? OUCH. Any day is bad but Christmas day JEEZE! You are amazing to keep so positive.
I think you need to detach, for your own sanity more than anything else.
It is early days for her, she is no doubt still angry and wanting to vent that by showing you just how much she hurts.
My own H is only just losing the anger after 8 months. You have a way to go yet.
Do what you have to do to make yourself feel good. Treat yourself do whatever you need to do to remind yourself that you are a good person and worthy of more than this treatment.
NC
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
