Well Sienna, thanks for suggesting those books. I went on Amazon and bought Why Does He Do That and the Verbally Abusive Relationship. I bought them used/new condition and it was less than $6 for both. I hope that I can interpret what is really going on here. We had a street fair here to celebrate the rodeo that's coming next weekend. I took the kids and halfway through h calls and asks if the fair is tomorrow too since he's off work. So, when I called him tonight I asked if he wanted to go tomorrow. He said "What's the point. You didn't even include me or wait to go tomorrow. You already went so there's no point in going again. I just wish you'd include me." What I don't get is why wouldn't he jump at the chance to see his kids? He's never offered to take them for an evening since we split. He's had them a couple times when I asked him to if I had someplace to go, and even then, it's his parents taking care of them. The kids had a blast today, and would probably love to go again tomorrow, but he's being pouty because we already went.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."