Pooper,

I was kinda thinking back to the Mars/Venus thing. You martian, need cave. She Venutian don't want fix. Ummm.

Maybe it's possible to remove yourself from the conflict, take time to calm down, take time to gather your thoughts and then come back when you're ready to continue the convo.

Kinda like the 24 hour or count-to-10 rules.

Don't ask me. I pull my own finger for fun.