Mink, you've got a good handle on yourself and I'm very proud of you. I think this is a great example of how DBing can make or break your relationship. You doing everything the "DB" way is allowing your W to really think things through. I can say for myself that my old way of working on our relationship was just putting nails in the coffin. Congratulations! You are doing everything you can, you're giving your relationship a real chance AND you've become an incredible person. \:\)


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.