Hi T-bone, I would be very much interested in THIS also. During the time when I suspected that something was going on with my H, we were having the best sex ever! Quite frankly, HE had always maintained previously (for too long!) that because of the Paxil he was on, he was not able to "perform". So, when all of a sudden he was more than willing and ABLE, I of course enjoyed, but was very confused! During his EA, was he thinking about HER during these 'intimate' times..or was he/is he making sure that he still has it so that when his 'relationship' moves onto PA he knows there will be no problems? Thanks, Glo