No I haven't gotten the papers yet but he reassures me they will be coming.
Now I was informed by H today that the affair with the one he left me for actually started late last summer in Aug./Sept. so he has been lieing to me for more months than just the 4 he's been gone. He said he just snapped..was tired of coming home to a dirty house, was tired of the bills, was tired of the drive of an hour+ each way for work... He professes he never meant for it to happen and never meant to hurt me.
Yes, I am appreciative to have this information now because it gives me answers I needed.
I can honestly say right now that I do NOT want him back. The man I loved for 19 years and devoted my LIFE to was not who he is now. There is no longer ANY trust and I would not want to take him back and constantly be feeling like I had to look over my shoulder and worry about when he will do it again.
He also claims this new woman that he has been with for 2 or 3 months treats him well and is involved in her career and has her own place. Whooopeeee f****ing doo for her. So he feels like a kept man? He did let me know today that she is worried he will leave her to come back to me and that he has to reassure her he isn't.
I am still confused though since he had been persuing me as he had the last couple weeks. That is why I will now just sit quietly and listen. Let him flounder and travel this path alone while I watch and observe.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
