Reacting and changing in haste can cause a backslide.
Wise words, Dave. Thanks for that.
We spent the rest of today together, emptying our boat, which is for sale. It was a bit emotional, we have been boating for 10+ years and have had so many good times. But, whether we end up together or apart, we need to get rid of the boat and prepare for something else, whatever that may be. If we're together, it's going to be outdoor recreation and travel. If we end up apart....who knows, but we sure can't afford to keep the boat!
Today was nice, we laughed a lot, shed a couple of tears, and had a really good lunch at the water's edge.
On the way home, I said "You're welcome to come up or stay over if you want." She said "I think I'll be in bed by 7:00, I am soooo tired, I know I'll fall asleep right away. I think I'll just go home tonight". "No problem" I said.
It was a good day today, I kinda like taking it slow and easy, and dating my wife.
I just wish she could figure things out. We could be so good.
