H came over today...late as always and then left early to hang out with "the guys" WHATEVER that gets so old. He only see's his son on the weekends and i'm so tired of being the only one responsible.

H told me today that the affair is pretty much over with, and now he is working on getting himself better. Not sure what to believe. I have seen some changes but he is still being extremly selfish and distant. I hope he really does just need some time for him. I'm sort of worried that he has a good thing going right now and will never move back home. [censored] he comes over when he wants, leaves when he wants pretty much does exactly what H wants!!!! I dont know what to do to change that?????

OW has still been calling (since I checked his voice mail) but I have NO idea how much they are talking or if they still see each other. I'm not sure what he means by "it's pretty much over" Over as in NC or just physically over. As always I guess time will tell