No one to turn to- 2

[addie]

H came by to pick up S this afternoon to take him to his team's party - it's for the parents as well but I didn't go because H didn't ask me to. He arrived just as S and I were arriving from the grocery store. He helped carry in the groceries and then helped put them away.
H was in a pleasant mood, much more his old self. I was the one that was distant. He said we would play cards together once they got back. I told him I was also going out while they were away but would be back around the time they arrived (didn't mention where I was going).
H also said he would like to come by tomorrow afternoon to do some cooking for us and for himself for the week.
I guess it's a good sign that he wants to spend time here but I don't want to be taken advantage of. I don't know that he is "cake eating" because he can't be spending that much time with OW. They see each other at work but he's spent a lot of time here otherwise.
I know I shouldn't be concerned with OW but I can't help but wonder about that sitch.