I'm not asking you to change your POV, just offering a different view
It's hard for me to be anything but civil with someone I can't trust, etc. I am civil, but not friendly.
KS, I tend to be like you. I can't imagine being friends with the X or his new wife. I cannot trust either of them and after all of ther things they did, I will never respect them....two important thngs in my eyes when it comes to friendship. I will be civil, I don't look for or want to be a part of any arguments with them, I just want to live in peace and interact with them when necessary.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
