What you decide to do will of course be your own decision, be that confront H or find a way round it. I will support what you decide, and help you out as much as i can. Your humour got me through SO MUCH. I was just reading back on old posts ... we laughed a lot in the DB phase. Didn't seem to laugh so much in Piecing
Isn't that the truth? I'm not having near as much fun as I did then. I've told H and MC many times that probably the *happiest* time in my life was strangely when all this badness was going down...that summer of 2006. I had just let go of whatever he did...I knew I had no say.
And that's what I think my problem is. I think I have a say. I'm not staying detached. So, now I just have to let go and make sure I say exactly what I mean and ask for what I want. Then I have at least done my part, and I can choose something else for myself if I don't like his choices, right?
I'm doing better. Honestly...truth? Going to MC just always pisses me off more than I am when I go. Don't know why...or if we should just quit then. I just get so angry with H because he doesn't speak up or tell me what he wants and needs. Just holds onto it...just like before. And it makes me tired.
Hence my boundary that if he doesn't tell me, it doesn't exist, period. Not my problem.
Sigh.
Rob & Julie, thanks for checking on me. Julie, I've looked for a thread to check up on you, but there's nothing. How're YOU doing dear?
Another MC session this Thursday...bleh. I really hate going....
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Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
