When it comes to her time with me, however she is withdrawn, cold and distant and at times downright mean. We have had sex less than 15 times in the last 3 years....she states that sex makes her skin crawl and that I should not take it personal. (!!!) She also has informed me that I should not get upset or made about the fact that before her sexual affair with another man we had sex on a fairly regular rate, and that it was good sex..not just the mechanical thing we do now on the rare times we do do it. She has also said that I need to curb my sex drive and be happy for the fact that we have sex at all.
Hi, ty.
I am sorry for your pain.
I have a couple questions for you.
When and how did her affair end?
What makes you sure it is over?
Even your brief description gives indication that she may still be wayward.
All the best, NOPkins
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
