Any chance?

[Bill_S]

Just do your best to detach as much as possible. She may be hurting you out of guilt or because she wants to. Protect your heart. Dont take it personally.

Detaching is hard....I know.I just told my ex I was done with her and when something changes(with her problems etc) call me and let me know. I said i cant expend the energy or leave myself open to the hurt anymore(talking about her BF and their problems to me??)
I said goodbye..maybe forever...dont know but I needed some distance and so do you. You can still love her and be kind without keeping the door open to the pain.

If not mlc then she has a deep,deep issue.

Bill