Hey nlt, I have been away with S8 during his hospital stay for the past week and have been able to only read in snippets and not really been able to post (stupid public connection).

Anyway, you have gotten a lot of good advice, he is not ready to think about how much he is hurting. At least to me, part of the MLC is the person being very selfish and ignoring the feelings of others. Just try to be supportive, which I know seems counter productive, and upbeat, which seems impossible. Just try and stay postive and keep moving forward for yourself.

I am sending some good vibrations your way. \:\) Good luck to you.


Ken
Me: 37
Her: 38
Son: 8 (spina bifida)
Son:2
M 6/24/1994
S 1/21/2008
Original Sitch