I would expect her not to want that all the time.

This is going to sound off, but she went with what she knew.

Just as it was not the "connection" you were hoping for the same applies to her.

I have some thoughts. As if I never do.

Right now you need to have your Advanced DAM tools on high alert.

Pay attention. She is telling you something.

She does not want to be a dirty girl all the time.

Don't make her feel like one.

Maybe in all that shaking she spilled some of her fluff.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.