NoCode, I think it's good but I think you might want to consider taking out some of it. The parts below are what I noticed:
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No, you established this stance of war against me -- and you just won't relinquish this hostility. Anything and everything I do seems to meet with your disapproval and raises your ire.
I could simply reciprocate your hostile, hateful tone. But I know that would not be productive.
But I ask you to please consider your all-out warfare footing and what this mutually-assured destruction is going to do to S7 and S3.
I think mentioning war and warfare might not be a good idea, and feel that some of the above is a little too hostile: like saying she has a hateful, hostile tone. I'm sure she does have that with you (my H is like that sometimes too!), but I am thinking that maybe you could be modeling for her a better, neutral, polite tone. I think if you use certain of those words like war, hostile, and hateful you may just antagonize her further and she may not even read your entire email either. So I think you might want to either take the above out or rewrite it or something? Just my opinion of course, and my H is still living with OW, so take that for what it's worth!!! Karen
Karen