I guess it is an affair, but maybe just not cheating since it is not a secret. You know I have though many time of doing the D myself just because of the fact I feel the affair is so disrespectful to the M.
Hi Soul mate, it doesn't really matter how you label it, it is what it is. At the very least your wife has been honest with you-to your knowledge- which allows you to make decisions based on the actual situation. Many of us here are struggling with the same decisions you are while uncertain what in the heck their spouses are doing.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
