I guess it is an affair, but maybe just not cheating since it is not a secret. You know I have though many time of doing the D myself just because of the fact I feel the affair is so disrespectful to the M.
Me - 34 W - 33 S - 5 D - 4 M - 14 years Bomb 1 Dec 06 Bomb 2 Aug 07 Separated - Aug 07 WAW Renting own place - Dec 07
