By the way Pup, I'd love to hear your story. If you'd rather not, I understand. If you'd rather not share it online I could give you my email address.
Just tell me to butt out if you're not interested. And I really appreciate your advise and support. It helps more than you can possibly know.
H4U,
I'd love to tell you more, but unfortunately we're no longer allowed to post e-mail addresses on here, which is ridiculous, but that's the policy. If you can search for Chocolateeyes' posts, my situation is remarkably similar to his.