Ouch, sleeper. I'm sorry your kids have had to deal with that.
Dark, dark. It will get your sanity back. In a way, isn't it good that this is not your problem?
I think my H is more screwed up than I knew, too. But in a way, it has been good to not have to deal with his problems. They occupied too much of my thinking.
He had yelled at me that I held him back. The truth is the other way around, and I think he knows that.
Now I can write my book....
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D