Ouch, sleeper. I'm sorry your kids have had to deal with that.

Dark, dark. It will get your sanity back. In a way, isn't it good that this is not your problem?

I think my H is more screwed up than I knew, too. But in a way, it has been good to not have to deal with his problems. They occupied too much of my thinking.

He had yelled at me that I held him back. The truth is the other way around, and I think he knows that.

Now I can write my book....


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D