Obviously I'm not male but when I was 21 years old my mother had an A. I exposed it to my father who may have just been ignoring it. Your sons may react with a lot more anger than they do with sadness at this point. I do not think I could possibly have been any meaner, or said any more hurtful things to my mother than I did. I was hurt for my dad but I myself was betrayed by all her lies. I think the fear or the realization that she was losing my sister and I was huge. She stayed, she ended her A and she and my father have been married 11 more years since.

Last edited by neecy22; 04/05/08 01:19 PM.

Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009