Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Lays there watching T.V. That's it. I'm assuming she could have a secret "affair" phone, but at this point, that doesn't matter.

Talked with OMW yesterday. OM still claims to her that he has no intention of seeing WW again even if they divorce. I just find that hard to believe. He claims I twisted the TM's and there was no plan for him to come up here. yea, right. WW's special affair thong/bra, "what's his excuse for not coming up?" "OMW has a appt with an attny and he doesn't want to add fuel to the fire". "understandable but frustrating". How do you confuse that?

Ok, done with that.

I'm sorry I have to tell them too. I haven't done so for 7 months just because I don't want them to have to deal with this kind of pain. But they know I will never LIE to them. I've even been up front with them about some stupid stuff I did while I was young. You know the "do as I say, not as I did" kind of stuff. I'm not going to bash WW. But my boys and I have had many conversations about conquences of actions, what's right and wrong in life, etc and this will be one more lesson.

I just feel like it's time they know. I don't want them thinking what she's doing is acceptable in marriage. Don't want them to think that her sleeping on the couch, treating me like sh*t is acceptable. It's time to make a stand, whether it ends my marriage or not.