back off hes hit spin cycle.....you really can save yourself some heartache and such if you really let go and go dark...and dont call him or go see him...let him be you cant handle interactions w/o flying off the handle.....look ..hes blames you for all the woe in his life, bought a harley....has a 0w what more reason do you need??????


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest