Well, last night was as expected. WW acted all happy and crap for the little bit that DS15 was downstairs and as soon as he went up to his bedroom for an evening of online gaming, she went upstairs and spent the evening in the bedroom with the door closed. Ok by me. Didn't want to talk to her anyway.
During the evening I think I decided to alter my approach a little bit. DS15 has plans this evening to go to his friends band practice and spend the night. I don't think it would be a good idea to tell him this afternoon and then have him go to The Compound with just his friends after hearing that news, so I'm going to go and tell DS19 alone this afternoon. DS19 is such a fine young man and will be able to handle this a lot better than DS15 will, so I'm going to spend the afternoon/evening with him (maybe even spend the night with him) and then tell DS15 tomorrow.
Then I'm going to tell WW I'm NOT leaving the house, she's the one committing adultery and there is no way I'm going to end up paying for her to continue to live the lifestyle she's used to while she F's OM on my dime. Then I'm going to see a lawyer and see what my options are. Maybe I don't do anything for a little bit after exposing to the kids and MIL and see what happens.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.