in my case, h said that one of the major difference between me and ow is that she is a professional who is financially stable and makes tons of money.
my beauty, my charm, my body (40yo but fit and sexy altho with strechmarks after two kids) - do not sway him. she is the same age, overweight, semi good looking. and she broke with him cople mo ago to go back to her previous boyfriend she was engaged with before. and he still is entrenched in "loving her".
my insecurity is about making money. regardless of h, i want to be financially secure. it is so hard for me. if before i could run away from this challenge - now it is right in my face.
you know, i read you because in some way you are a role model for me - you are financially stable professional with a good salary
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1