Erik, IMHO you have to listen to your gut like puppy says. I know I tried to ignore mine and it was the worst mistake I have ever made.

If you can ask her about her contact with OM and remain calm then it might be a conversation worth having. You have to value you enough to ask the really tough questions.

Good luck.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option