Hi Rob,

Thanks for dropping in on my thread and giving me your insight, yes I am getting there but it's hard work. It will all be worth it if we get there in the end.

About the shirt thing, W has always wanted to me to look my best that's one of the things which attracted her to me and a big thing she said I messed up on. I know FG had tongue firmly pressed in check when he said it was a "Gay thing", I got the joke first time.

I'll try to stop thinking how OM has influenced W's new behaviour but for me it's a big change almost night and day and it's literally just happen so it's hard to ignore. It's a whole new situation for me to take on board so I'm a little confused as to exactly where I stand and if I need to do anything. Or just sit back and enjoy the ride.

Forrest ,

Crazy stuff!!??, not sure if it is crazy but W has pulled back rapidly, she said she can't/won't do the freaky sex thing every night. I asked her to at least give me a clue if its gonna happen cos I'm out of practice, and need to exercise some mind control over the "little man" to ensure we both get fulfilled. W said she can't just give out dates just like that, I replied we'll at least let me know the year. Poor DB but that last one liner made me laugh.

As for today W is at hairdressers, D6 at dance class then the two of them go shopping, I've got a list of jobs around the house to do for W, then we have the evening together, I'm not sure what to expect.

Lan