As my H likes to say: it is much easier to continue in an adulterous lifestyle than it is to face the reality and harm this has done to those they love because it is so very hard to deal with.
I am not saying that TJ would prefer that lifestyle but what I am saying is that it is easier to avoid reality and all of the harm this has caused those they love the most.
I have faith in TJ and he will come around. Just give him some time. Holly is a very classy lady and I cannot see him giving her up.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
