Thanks for stopping by. What your H said to you is exactly what my W has said to me. ILYBNILWY, realized what she really wanted after being w/ OM & our 12 years doesn't mean anything, isn't attracted to me, doesn't feel anything when I touch her, thinks it would be easiest to D and then I can find someone to make me happy.
Anyway, we don't have kids so the D is pretty easy. Not emotionally, but legally. I'm just trying to take care of the things I can take care of and let the rest just happen. I have to feel good about the person I am, and that's happening slowly but surely.
I don't know how people move on - I guess I'm starting to out of necessity. Anyway, I'm glad you're here - it's a supportive place.
