Please help...need MLC advice

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breton,

I've read your thread, too. Hope your weekend is off to a good start.

My H is definitely passive aggressive and conflict avoidant. I think (and MIL says she KNOWS) that H filed for D under pressure from OW. (MIL doesn't know anything from H, as they have little to no contact---she knows from her own experience with FIL's serial affairs, where his OW's ALWAYS tried to control and manipulate him into filing D.))

It is interesting that H would let things hang for weeks or even months without doing anything, then all of a sudden would freak out and push forward with D.

I do think OW is very controlling. But, ultimately, so what? He is at fault for what happened between the two of us more than OW is.

And now I'm just being tired and rambly. Going to bed now.