unevitably aboard the D train...

[cat03]

YES!!! that's precisely the song I heard when I thought to myself "heck, i put up with his crap one too many months!"

Thanks for posting it hon!! (I"m also a Daughtry fan from the very beginning ) the lyrics are so me, it's almost scary, I"m almost over him and it's barely been a month of the D bomb, I think i have totally accepted that he's a lost cause and that that good man i loved is gone for good.

i think it has helped me to stop worrying about him or wonder how he's doing, stop looking at the clock and say 'oh, at this hr he's prob at work/leaving work, etc etc'. He started that crap again of 'do you know where can I get such and such' or 'how do I do this and that?' Before, I'd run and find out stuff for him, use all my resources and look for stuff for him, i now just shrug and say 'don't know, sorry'. He can find his own secretary from now on. I"m not trying to be cruel, i am really trying to cut off all the familiarity between us, because otherwise it'd feel too much as if we are still together. This is my 'acting as if' method, and it has helped me detach from him.