Sad to say, but it was clear right from the beginning, that the whole point he did the "separation" thing, was to go have sex with someone else and "see what it was like".
yeah- I agree.
I guess I am "lucky" it wasn't all that he thought it would be. And I am glad I have survived finding it he has sullied our fidelity. jerk. Ok, I may not have had a breakdown like I imagined I would, but as time passes, I am getting more and more agitated.
He does want us to feel more "connected". My kingdom for the answer to that problem.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
