He told me last night that he needs a for sure answer whether or not I am willing to work on things with him. Very fair that he would ask that...but I still don't know.
So the answer he's expecting is Yes-and-i-will-bow-to-your-every-wish? no wonder you dont' know. Have you made a MC appt and told him it is ready, lets go? has he gone to church with you? This sitch seems to be going in circles, with him trying to yank an answer out of you which accepts him emotional abuse and all.
I read your thread on Marcum's one about your car, yikes! talk about a control freak, I dont' think I micromanage my 9yr old that way about his room.
Sienna sounds like she really knows what she's talking about and is on the money, hope you admit he is emotionally abusive, dont' you see yourself in Marcum? too afraid to stand up to his abuse and continue to let him walk over you just so he wont' leave you permanently?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
