in my view:

no, it's not worth "getting in his grill" about it, because apparently HE doesnt think it was cheating.

Sad to say, but it was clear right from the beginning, that the whole point he did the "separation" thing, was to go have sex with someone else and "see what it was like".

In some peoples' book, "separated" means "free to do anything". He seems to be one of those people.

You cant make someone feel guilt or remorse for something they think they are justified in doing. it only irritates them.
So bugging him about it now, would definately be counter-productive, in my opinion. No positives, and definately negatives.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle