Thats a good way to see it actually. Sure beats jealously.
I know that even though our Hs act like they are fine they are actually very sad about the sitch. Just because they are the ones that left doesn't mean it's all easy and smooth for them. H is depressed and his Dr wants him to go on AD. Not sure if he will.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
