I play a martyr at home. No seriously I do have a tendancy to play the poor Jen card a lot and sometimes I know that I can change a sitch and but do not try. I have learned a lot these past couple months and have now committed to change. Now is the right time to say "me first".
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*